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14th April 2005

Its a Matter of Pride @ 16:14

Current Grassiness: happy proud
Current sounds: Place Your Hands by Reef

First off...hours of fun with this


OK...this has been bugging me for a few months now. It seems that, in the UK at least, there is a culture of nonpride.

Maybe because people dont give thanks for the mundane tasks we take for granted like sweeping streets, making tea, mopping up poo, sick and blood, posting mail, packing strawberry punnets, milking cows, stacking shelves in the supermarket etc.. Maybe its not up to us to give thanks and it should be the bosses that praise and give appreciation (not necessarily with reward).

It seems that in some service and consumer orientated sectors there are people that dont put any pride into their work. They show no compassion and basically follow things by the book, they work to the "get them in shove them out" idiom and the "I dont give a shit" attitude.

Some of the recent instances that I can think include:-

  • A really really arse non-compassionate bank worker basically not giving a shit and being unhelpful about a someones situation

  • a GP fobbing off a really pleasant gentleman with back problems (which clearly are causing him difficulty...Doctor just told him to take ibruprofen and take a few days off work!);

  • a waitress that just sat their daydreaming while a gang of yobs chucked salt and pepper at each other;

  • a helpdesk chap that couldnt give a shit about an A1 plot (oh hang on thats me...) ;

  • a plumber that couldnt be arsed plumbing a bath in properly and just McGyvered some network of pipes instead of getting the proper pipes;

  • Social security and benefit people that dont give a shit about peoples circumstances

  • Bin men that just chuck recycle bins on peoples lawns so that they blow away never to be seen again instead of moving them somewhere where they wont blow away.

  • Window cleaners that just give windows a quick dab with a mucky rag then expect £5

The list is endless really. But I cant be arsed to type them all....[Now is that because I have a lack of pride? I dunno. ]. It seems to me that the reason that there is so much poor customer service, poor and shoddy workmanship, dirty hospitals, litter on the street, unkempt gardens, chav scum, graffiti strewn trains and walls, is because there is no pride.

Im guilty of it. Look ! I'll put my hand up now and type with one hand and say "I...Stegzy Gnomepants...take no pride in some things" I wont say I have no pride. I do. I am proud of things. Just the wrong things. Meaningless things. Im proud that my CD/MP3 collection is so big and catalogued alphabetically, I am proud of my friends and how they pull together when things go shit. I'm proud that I have a beautiful wife and two lovely puddytats. But Im not proud of a vast list...including

  • my job

  • the way after a year my car is still covered in dents and looks scruffy

  • my garden

  • some of the skeletons in my past

  • some of the things I own that I dont look after

Thats not an exhaustive list. Im sure if I thought about it I'd blather on about why Im not proud of this that and the other but brevity is the watchword here.

Granted noone is likely to say "Thankyou for making your garden lovely", noone is likely to say "Oooh thankyou for not having a big fuck off hole in your car door" or "My Im sure glad you fucked Teana when you were 21". In fact things like that are highly unlikely. So maybe it isnt the level of thanks that dictates the pride. Perhaps pride is the wrong word to use. Recognition? praise?

"Oooh your garden looks lovely!" is more plausable
"ooh your car is nice and shiney" is also plausable
"Ooh Going out with Teana was the right thing to do"....er....nah.....psycho bitchcow from Hells Hell.

Maybe there will always be things I can never be proud of. But there are things I CAN be proud of. There are things I can do to develop recognition for my actions. So everytime now I think I've done a really good job helping someone I'm going to tell them my name.

"Hey I've helped you. I've shown you how to do something you didnt know how to do. I hope I've shown you in a polite helpful and friendly manner. My name is Stegzy Gnomepants :-D"

Im also going to do a really good job of the garden so it isnt just some patch of mown grass with weeds. But really is that enough?


It isnt....IMHO.

Really I should thank people who provide a service and do a good job. Make them feel proud of their hard work. If I think someone has done a good job I'm going to write to their head office a right nice letter....eg:

Dear Mr Tesco,

I am writing to tell you that Ms Shelf Stacking Lackey did a really good job of facing up the dried peas. Please give her a big pat on the back and a cheery smile.



I might also send emails. There really is no excuse, Im sat infront of a PC most hours of the day typing drivel into SEMAGIC. In fact...hey...Im going to write an email to the Livejournal cheeses..

Dear Mr Live Journal Bloke

Thankyou for allowing me to spout drivel. It really has made a difference to my life and all the people I've met through it (including those that read but not become members or join the Flist) are lovely lovely people. I love you.


Stegzy Gnomepants.

And when someone does a really crap job, Im going to write....

Dear Mrs Spa Shopkeeper's boss,

You are a shit boss because you dont give your employees enough praise for their hard work. As a result, the woman in your shop that grumped when I asked for 10 fags because they were the other end of the counter was grumpy and thankless. This is your fault you heartless bitch. Dont you realise that they need thanks and recognition.

I will get my fags from Abuls instead.

Stegzy Gnomepants.

Then maybe people will start giving praise which will lead to a growth in pride, a big sloppy kiss, happy people and a much nicer society....

I'd also like to take this opportunity to say Thankyou all....yes you lot reading this....You all take pride over your LJ's and do a really really good job of them and you all write exciting and interesting stuff which I read every word of. Some of it moving, some really lovely, some that make me realise that everyone faces shit every day of their life. Keep up the truely excellent good work.....and post this little award on your info page somewhere.....let the world know that you are proud to write good stuff about the good and the shit things in life.....

Love :-D
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Date:14th April 2005 11:19 (UTC)
it's really depressing me that i can't find another way to wack the boss.

About the pride thing - i can honestly put my hand on my heart and say that the only job i've ever done where i haven't had any nice compliments or encouraging words said from at the very least my boss, is debenhams, i didn't work on the shop floor often, but when i did customers were always friendly and polite.

In contrast where i am at saga my name is in our team section of the office saying i'm the best fundraiser and my boss at saga who sits opposite me is absolutely lovely and always tells me how well i'm doing. I wonder why it is that i've been at saga cumulativemy for about 3 years and only stayed at debenhams for about 3 months???
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Date:16th April 2005 02:21 (UTC)
Thank you, Stegzy dearest! *hug* You just made my day with your kind words and that brilliant award, which only a really lovely person would give to another and which I'll certainly try my best to be worthy of.

You have so much going for you, including what you just listed. Personally, I really appreciate you for your kindness, funnyness, intelligence, and, especially, the way you actually stop and think about things. So, again, thank you, luv, for being a fantastic mate and for sharing your thoughts with us!

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